My name is Nnamdi Okafor and I
have a story to share with your readers, hoping they will advice me accordingly.
Five years ago, I was struggling to set up my business
after serving a man for seven years. I have always been one who looks at the
bright side of life and knew that things would turn out for the better.
At that time, I had a girlfriend, Ifeoma, whom I loved
with all of my heart but I could not afford to give her the good things of life
she desired. I kept pleading with her to be patient and to assure her of my
love, I proposed marriage to her and she accepted.
But along the line, Ifeoma could no longer cope with my
poverty and told me in plain terms that she was moving on. She left me in the
lurch and even told me to my face that I had no future.
Few months later, I heard that she became the second wife
of a rich man.
I was so hurt and almost gave up but with my faith in God,
I stuck in and vowed to work harder and make it in life.
As God would have it, I met a Chinese man who wanted to
bring in some tricycles into Nigeria and we went into partners and, to cut the
story, things changed for the better and I can say now that God has blessed me
so much that I own three thriving companies and I now have a ‘future’.
But about six months ago, Ify came out from the blues and
traced me to my office. There, she begged and cried for me to take her back,
saying she has realised her mistakes and wants to make ammends.
I am confused here. As much as I want to be free from her,
I still remember the love I had for her and at times, I am tempted to allow her
into my life again. But my whole family is against that and they have made it
known they would not accept her.
What should I do? Drop your COMMENT
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